Why Weddings Are Better In Your 20s

Weddings can be very frustrating affairs in those awkward few years between college and being married. Either you are the one that gets married and make your friends feel particularly single, or you are the friend that spends a ton on wedding gift registries and finds a seat minus a plus-one at the singles’ table in the corner. Either way, weddings can be hard to navigate.

I am currently sitting in Illinois writing this post instead of getting ready for the bridesmaid luncheon I’m attending today. Fitting, right? Instead of harping on all the hard things about being the single twenty-something at the wedding, however, let’s get down to the perks. We know there are lots of wedding presents and relatives asking you about your love life and costly dresses that you can’t “shorten and wear again.” Regardless, I still love weddings.

1. You get to dress up and look pretty.

What girl doesn’t want the chance to her hair and nails done and put on a gorgeous dress? Just think of all the photos in which you’re gonna look super hot. Build that portfolio, girl.

2. You get to drink and (mostly) not be judged for it. Sometimes it’s even free.

This starts to get shadier the older you get. Enjoy those glasses of wine and dance around by yourself and take off your shoes. Apparently, these aren’t perks that everyone can enjoy. You appreciate that unencumbered-ness as long as you can. Also, how often do you get to have free champagne? Plus, let’s be real – it’ll be easier to recover the next day.

This is pretty self-explanatory. Generally, we’re broke college kids. Or, broke no-job kids. Or, expensive-habits-low-paying-job kids. Just accept this wedding gift from the gods.

4. You have the energy to stay up past 10PM.

This is becoming a toughy for me. But, if it’s already hard now, how bad’s it gonna be in ten years? Staying up late sometimes is good for the soul. When you look back on this moment, you’re not going to remember how long you slept – you’re going to remember the laughs and the crazy dance moves and that ridiculous wedding gift you brought.

5. You get to share in the moments that build you & your friends’ futures.

This is the biggest, right? Chances are, if you’ve been invited to the wedding, you mean something to that person. They’re letting you into what could be the greatest day of their life. Getting to experience such a huge moment – whether its with a plus one or just with friends – is an incredible honor. Be there and be present because you won’t get those moments back. And, you could miss out if you turn that chance down.

So, take all the chances you can to go to weddings and enjoy having those photos to chronicle your memories. Plus, you’ll be able to steal ideas and see what works (and what looks awful anywhere but on Pinterest) for whenever it’s your day. Cheers!

Mexican Cultural Space Differences

As Americans, we are conditioned from a young age to have a very distinct self of self. We are individualistic in our thinking, spanning from our first bedroom to our individual burial lots. Americans, as a society, look to advance the interests of the “I.” In 2006, the Josephson Institute of Ethics conducted a survey of 36,000 students in Los Angeles and asked questions such as, “would you be willing to lie or deceive another individual to advance yourself in your own career?” Not so surprisingly, more than sixty percent of students chose an individualistic approach in answering.

This is a great example of Americans drawing a circle around the “I” in our culture. According to Crouch’s article, Mexicans and Americans: A Different Sense of Space, “when we draw circles around ourselves, we are inside the circle looking out” (Crouch, 2004).

Our sense of space is directly linked to our behavior. As our space is encroached upon, we become increasingly defensive and uncomfortable. We have also associated spatial distances with romance. Crouch mentions that if a Mexican female comes near in conversation to an American male, the male should not take this gesture as a come-on (Crouch, 2004). However, if this was an American female, closing a gap of space could be considered a romantic gesture. This notion of space is embedded into our culture; having an individualistic perspective is rooted in generations of American traditions and family life.

Mexican culture draws its circle very differently. As opposed to thinking of the individual, Mexicans use a collective “we” – drawing a circle around their family. Defining this family space is important; it is the comfort and safety of a home that provides nurturing and support to Mexican children. Crouch writes that “physical closeness goes along with closer families and less sibling rivalry” (Crouch, 2004).

American perception of Mexican culture’s sense of space is usually negative; we “see them piled onto a train” (Crouch, 2004) and make jokes about how many can fit in a car. In reality, Mexican culture encourages this element of together-ness; “Mexicans will always feel more comfortable being part of a group” (Crouch, 2004). Within this sacred space, they are in control of what is going on – not something that can necessarily be promised outside of their homes.

In conjunction with this notion of space, however, comes a ferocity to protect the family circle. Mexicans traditionally have walls between their houses; they are concerned with “sharply demarcating one family’s living space from another family’s” (Crouch, 2004). This is not to say, though, that Mexicans are leery of those around them.

Many families in Mexican culture celebrate unity among their neighbors and host group meals. When a member is accepted into this family circle, he or she is embraced wholeheartedly. When they are in their group space, “they behave according to what that space is dedicated to” (Crouch, 2004).

Understanding the two distinct approaches to space is important to intercultural communication because it explains why a Mexican would approach situations differently than an American. I recall visiting a Mexican restaurant one time and feeling sorry for the Mexican children that had to help out their parents. However, in understanding the cultural perspective of Mexican families, children helping at a restaurant may be considered a family duty. As part of a group dynamic, it only seems natural that the children would also learn the customs and traditions of their family.

American and Mexican concepts of space not only differ in terms of family and personal space, but also in the realm of business communication. In American culture, we encourage employees to work side by side with a team; questions can be asked freely among higher ranking executives and interaction is recommended. This is ironically different from our individualistic concepts of personal space. However, within business, collaboration and creating an equal playing field facilitates a healthy working environment. Employers look specifically at whether or not a prospective employee could work well in a team.

In Mexican culture, the warmth and security of a personal, family space does not translate into the workplace. According to the text, creating a distinct hierarchy between boss and worker is normal for Mexicans. Crouch writes, “the Mexican boss will have an exaggeratedly large office and desk to emphasize the hierarchal distance between himself and his minions. This is his power distance” (Crouch, 2004).

In America, businesses strive to create an environment where lower employees feel just as valued in the company as higher employees. In Mexican culture, businesses rely on the fact that the boss is the “big man” (Crouch, 2004) and deserves a higher level of respect than other employees. In this way, their culture does not facilitate an open door for questions; it would be considered beneath the boss’ skill set.

Understanding the difference between an American’s sense of space in business verses a Mexican’s will surely save business deals. As Mexican’s value their group space immensely, an American must adapt his or her sense of space as not to disrespect their coworker. This would include approaching the Mexican’s space with “a proper greeting, avoiding flamboyant gestures, not shouting, and general circumspection (Crouch, 2004). It is crucial that Americans adjust their individualistic tendencies as not to threaten or “disrupt the harmony of the group” (Crouch, 2004).

This may translate to an American making a conscious effort to preserve the hierarchal status of the Mexican’s business practices by not undercutting his or her authority in front of other employees. It could also mean accepting a personal invitation for dinner, understanding that this welcoming into a Mexican’s personal and protected space is more than just a nicety.

When entering the space of someone from another culture, it is crucial to the relationship that respect is the primary offering. Being sensitive to the perceptions of space held by Mexicans requires Americans to be cooperative in our actions and gracious in communicating within that group. Once we have been welcomed into the circle, cultivating those relationships should be the number one priority.

 Crouch, N. (2004). Mexicans and Americans: A different sense of space. Intercultural Communication: A Reader. (Larry A. Samovar, Richard E. Porter, Edwin R. McDaniel, eds.) 13th edition, USA, 2012, 189-197.

Catcalls vs. Compliments

At college, there are thousands of people all huddled together in one central location. We’ve got men, women, students, athletes, those kids that play the Magic card game in the University Center, the kids that sit in the library to talk, the guy that lets the door close on you when you’re holding hot coffee, the kids that waste all the paper at the printer, and, well, tons of others. Needless to say, there are about 5000 men at the university I attend.

Lately, there’s been tons of attention drawn to catcalling in the media. BuzzFeed recently put out a video called “If We Lived in a World Where Women Catcalled Men” (and it’s hilarious, you should watch it on Buzzfeed).

First of all, what is catcalling? What do we consider a catcall?

I found the following definition on UrbanDictionary (which, obviously, is the be-all-and-end-all truth):

“When a guy gives the wert whirl whistle or yells at a babydoll for the purpose of getting attention and in hopes of a future hookup. This is usually done out of the window of a car. Typically a Pontiac Firebird, or Camaro.”

This is pretty dang accurate. I consider catcalling to be any remark that contains: a moving car; any sort of yell; the terms baby, sugar, sweetheart, honey, or boo; lingering following the remark; elevator eyes; or any question as to “what I’m doing later.” There’s not much wiggle room.

As a female who gets catcalled way more often than I would like to, I would like to draw attention to what I’ve found as the difference between being complimented by a man and being catcalled. This week, I decided to keep track.

It is Thursday. So far this week, I have been catcalled 5 times and complimented twice. So, what’s the difference for me? The first catcall came from a guy stopped at a red light who decided to roll down his window. If my heart starts to race (and not in a good way), it’s a catcall. I felt like I needed a shower after that one.

The next came from two football players that blocked the sidewalk, elevator-eyed me, and said, “Baby, how you doin’?” Just fine, thanks, although I don’t remember being your baby; that must’ve been a different lifetime.

The other three were very similar to these encounters. Personally, I can tell if it’s a catcall by the way I feel following the interaction. This changes from woman to woman. If I feel nervous, scared, anxious, or dirty following our conversation (or lack thereof), I did not appreciate it. For me, these are catcalls.

I decided to write this particular post this morning because today as I was walking down the street, a guy on the sidewalk walking by said in passing, “You’re really beautiful.” And, he kept walking. I smiled. That was the extent of our encounter. As I kept walking, I did not feel victimized or dirty or anxious. I just felt normal (if not a little more confident about the outfit I’d chosen!). There was no aggression, no blocking me from walking, no follow-up questions about my plans for the evening – just a compliment.

Now, if this same person had a different attitude or tone in the way he had said it, I would have reacted very differently. It’s not the words, it’s the sentiment behind them.

As I mentioned before, some women still find interactions like this to be catcalling, and that varies. However, personally, I can appreciate men that are respectful and genuine in their compliments. It came with a more awkward, shy demeanor than a powerful, arrogant Gaston-like vibe.

Another thing to note – I have never been catcalled by a female. This could be for two reasons: 1. We make our remarks always sound like pleasant compliments, regardless of whether or not we actually like what you’re wearing, or 2. We understand what it feels like to be catcalled ourselves, and thus would never put another female through it.

So, what?

Women: We don’t often have to be told to be aware of how things make us feel. However, if catcalling is something that makes you feel uncomfortable (or anxious or nervous or dirty), you need to stick up for yourself. This is something I have a really hard time doing. When I get catcalled, I get all awkward and nervous and I tend to shut down. It’s hard for me to garner up a good comeback (these always come to me like a day later – sad, I know). Understand your worth and what you deserve. Confidence is beautiful – and hopefully that will bring you genuine compliments.

Men: There needs to be some understanding that what you say to a woman is interpreted and analyzed through these lenses. Please do not be aggressive and arrogant. Please do not block our path or box us in or make us feel powerless. If you would like to give a compliment (which, I know a good handful of men that have mastered the art of complimenting a woman!), be respectful. We do not appreciate being yelled out through the window of a car – ever. I don’t care if that girl’s the most beautiful creature you’ve ever seen – pick a different scenario to tell her.

Russia: Cultural Sensitivity vs. Cultural Knowledge

The foundation of a culture is directly correlated with the way a society interacts interpersonally, interprets information, and pursues justice. Within the Russian culture, there are distinctive communication styles that can be linked to a much deeper level of rich history; these influences of the past still impact the work practices, personal communication, and family relationships of modern-day Russian life. According to Mira Bergelson’s article on Russian communication patterns, these styles of life – both with traditional Russian culture and Soviet co-cultures – can be traced back to distinctive qualities that resonate within most Russian communication models.

The six notions presented by Bergelson aid in understanding the need for Russian-specific knowledge and understanding before embarking upon a business venture. Generally, Russian culture supports a mistrust of government; this is directly linked to a “deep-rooted practice of deceiving higher authorities, coloring the truth, and using round-about ways” (Bergelson, 2012). An additional cultural pattern is the common skepticism associated with commercial activities, an overarching sense of cultural pessimism, little respect for set regulations or rules, and – as will be expanded upon further – a “lack of critical thinking and negotiation skills” (Bergelson, 2012).

Cultural sensitivity and cultural knowledge are two separate entities; however, culturally mindful communication involves the integration of the two ideas. Cultural knowledge is the idea of becoming familiar with a culture’s values and belief system, historical context, cultural characteristics, and interaction with members of varying ethnic groups (Adams, 1995).  To take cultural knowledge a step further, cultural sensitivity is an understanding of these unique and varying elements of culture and acknowledging their differences without assuming the values are wrong because they are unlike one’s own interpretations.

An individual obtains first the cultural knowledge – becoming a foundation for their perception of that culture – but learns through a lens of cultural sensitivity. If an interaction was based solely on cultural knowledge, the other member (the Russian) may see these interactions as “rude or imposing, or insecure and indirect, leading to a perception of the person as an unreliable partner or pushy employee” (Thomas, 1984). With the incorporation of cultural sensitivity, the interactions will encourage a mutual respect – both parties understand the relevance of being sensitive to the other’s values.

Cultural-specific knowledge, such as with Russian culture, is crucial to understand before taking an overseas assignment. Interactions with members of another culture, particularly within the workplace, are so firmly based in cultural foundations and traditions that ignorance to the importance of these elements will surely result in negative sentiment and mistrust, if not a loss of business completely. Specifically within Russian and Soviet co-cultures, members value relationships with people and feelings above gain in business. The goal of Russian interactions is always this idea of mutual support and understanding – not only with personal and family relationships, but also in business.

If an American businessman was to approach a Russian with the idea to exclude an employee because the task is better suited elsewhere, the Russian could see this as an attack on the personal relationships that have been built within the company. This could lead to the Russian creating a perception of that American as being untrustworthy or deceptive – in addition to Bergelson’s mention of the Russian’s “mistrust of commercial activities” in general. If these cultural nuances are understood prior to taking an overseas assignment, the Westerner could understand how to approach the situation differently, ensuring a good relationship with his Russian counterpart.

Two very prominent Russian values are emotionality and judgment. According to the text, Russians encourage the expression of emotion and value attention to the feelings of others. Directly linked to the idea of emotionality is the concept that “relationships are more important than contextual reality” (Bergelson, 2012). Because so much weight is given to appreciating the feelings of others, work relationships thrive when employees feel emotionally valued and connected. Russian culture, for this reason, is full of “active emotional verbs”  (Bergelson, 2012) and culturally loaded words. When a Westerner is interacting with a Russian in this capacity, it is important that the person or employee is put before the gain of the task – a concept that is strange to business in America.

The second value, judgment, is one that is seen to Americans as a negative quality – one that American society associates with being close-minded. To Russians, however, judgmental statements are spoken out of a desire to create a closer, more loyal connection in relationships. Members of Russian culture expect these moral evaluations, and consider it “appropriate to treat others in the same way” (Bergelson, 2012). Americans, on the other hand, tend to look at moral judgments as personal attacks, and condition themselves against passing judgments towards others. For this reason, it is crucial for an American interacting with a Russian to not take judgments as offensive; rather, a Russian judgment demonstrates a desire for mutual respect and deeper connection.

Russian and traditional Soviet co-cultures also support the notions of fatalism and irrationality – qualities that can be traced back culturally to authoritarian structures of government and the sentiment that the Russian people lack control. Fatalism is an attitude carried by most Russians, and is the idea that the future is fixed and unchangeable; in this mindset, Russian people lack control over the world and its events. This is starkly different from the classic American dream mindset; Western people tend to believe that the world is full of opportunity and hope. Addressing this point of view, American-Russian interactions should be pursued without overwhelming the Russian counterpart with potentials and undeterminable factors.

The model of irrationality is also engrained in Russian culture, which is a stark contrast to the general American view of positivism. Rather than “[relying] on objective methods of analysis and logic” (Bergelson, 2012), Russians lack critical thinking capacities and tend to believe that “things can go wrong… at any moment” (Bergelson, 2012).  Coming back to the idea of emotionality, Russians approach business rather with emotion, believing that “relationships are more important than results” (Bergelson, 2012). When interacting with Russians, Westerners would need to understand that using an analytical approach might not be relatable or the best option for their foreign coworkers.

According to the text, “spending time and effort to analyze what the behavior may denote and how it relates to other facets of Russian culture, can often provide insight into problems of cross-cultural organizational communication and group dynamics” (Bergelson, 2012). These varying Russian values all affect the perceptions that the people would have towards Westerners, and directly impact how business is done. In understanding how Russian culture views the world around them, Westerners can express cultural sensitivity within workplace interactions.

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Bergelson, M. (2012). Russian cultural values and workplace communication patterns.

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Review: Comedian Starts Twitter Campaign Against Burger King

Note: These article reviews are being completed for my PR Campaigns class; however, I feel as though these PR articles are too interesting not to share. I hope you learn as much from them as I did! Links to the articles are provided below.

Allen, K. (2014, Oct. 14). Comedian starts Twitter campaign against Burger King. PR Daily. Retrieved 16 Oct. 2014 from http://www.prdaily.com/Main/Articles/17436.aspx

Burger King recently released a new commercial featuring a yelling spokesperson, a handful of nuggets, and two “unsuspecting” teens on the street. This commercial followed very similarly to the comedic act of funnyman Billy Eichner, who hosts a Funny or Die segment entitled “Billy on the Street.” In his act, Eichner goes up to random people on the street, asks absurd questions, gives out money, and yells. This style of comedy is recognized by other comedians as Billy’s style – as became apparent after Burger King released the ad. The video can be viewed here: http://ow.ly/CTMjM

Shortly following the video’s release, Eichner slammed the company to his 250,000+ followers on Twitter, stating, “Hey @BurgerKing-thanks for stealing my act for ur new commercial!! Except its not as funny & everyone knows u stole it. GET YOUR OWN IDEAS.”

The following day, Eichner spoke again about the ad’s poor taste, tweeting, “As annoying as it is to have Burger King rip me off, your tweets are incredible. I have the BEST fans on the planet!!! See u at McDonalds!”

Capitalizing on the opportunity, McDonald’s was quick to respond to Eichner’s complaints. Shortly after the disgruntled comedian’s second tweet, the fast-food giant replied, “@billyeichner Can’t wait to see you! Oh, and bring Elena!” – referencing a well-known contestant of “Billy On The Street.”

Other comedians also got in on the Burger King slamming, chiding the corporation for stealing Eichner’s classic material and being unoriginal in their marketing tactics. Prominent celebrity comedian Seth Rogen tweeted to his 2.3 million followers the message, “Yo @BurgerKing, stop stealing from the hilarious @billyeichner and stick to what you’re good at: giving me diarrhea.”

Throughout this social media firestorm, Burger King did not address the new commercial, Eichner’s complaints or the consumer backlash from Eichner’s fans. The company has yet to respond to Eichner’s discontent.

There were a few major issues that jumped out at me in Allen’s article. First of all, Burger King should have been more tasteful in their marketing campaign. Although the ad is entertaining, it is clear to any fan of the Funny or Die network that the content is strangely similar to Eichner’s segment. The company could have utilized Eichner in the commercial himself; however, this is essentially his creative license of his style of work. Without explicit permission from the comedian, it should have been recognized that the ad would leave a bad taste in the mouth of many.

Secondly, Burger King did not respond to the accusations. In our communication classes, we are taught that responses from companies need to be quick, honest, and to-the-point. We are also taught to closely monitor every social media platform.

On social media, one post has the capacity to garner millions of impressions – something that we have witnessed time and time again as the downfall of company reputations. A older (but still relevant!) example of this can be seen with Kryptonite’s lock fiasco back in the early 2000s. When a cyclist posted a video of breaking a Kryptonite lock with a Bic pen on a blogging forum, the company stayed radio silent for five days, and took ten to announce a solution. By this point, millions of consumers vowed that they would no longer trust the brand and the debacle costed Kryptonite over $10 million dollars.

When a company chooses not to respond on social media, this becomes incredibly risky business. Consumers have the chance to skew the information, spread falsities and ruin years of community relations in a few clicks. Burger King would be wise to address this scenario before it spirals out of control further; Eichner’s celebrity friends, like Rogen, have large and powerful fan bases in terms of spending power. In addition to Rogen’s followers, McDonald’s – a huge competitor of Burger King – was quick to remind Eichner that he’s always welcome at their chain. If the competition is quicker to respond to the thread than the actual subject of the complaint, consumers will notice and form opinions.

Review: 101 Different Types of Content

Note: These article reviews are being completed for my PR Campaigns class; however, I feel as though these PR articles are too interesting not to share. I hope you learn as much from them as I did! Links to the articles are provided below.

Armitage, T. (2014, May 07). “101 different types of content.” PR Daily. Retrieved 3 Sept. 2014 from http://www.prdaily.com/marketing/Articles/16375.aspx

This article I chose was a little different from the classic paragraph explanations of working with PR that PR Daily usually shares. Thomas Armitage is an Internet marketing specialist based in New York who compiled a list of 101 different forms of content that a company can use on their website to encourage customer interaction and site traffic.

I chose this article specifically because when I am looking at increasing web traffic, even within my student organizations on campus, I usually go with the classic Facebook/Twitter/Instagram route. Beyond these social networks, I’m stumped. This list is incredibly important in the PR field because, as they say, “content is king.” Content drives users to a website, engages potential customers, and generates buzz. Many companies go with blogging as their number one choice to engage customers. However, Armitage writes that you have (literally) 100 other options.

I will not post every one of these 101 content options, but I have included a few that were the most interesting/unique ideas. The first item on the list was A/B testing. I had to look this up, because I had no idea what it is. A/B testing is a form of hypothetical statistics testing based on random experiments. If a random experiment pertained to your company (i.e., something new that was being tried out), this may be interesting to your customers.

I also liked the idea of using animated gifs. We see these images a lot on social media sites, particularly via Buzzfeed, but they also can be used to draw people to your site. Animation is an attention grabber in itself – and humor engages many different types of people. Along these same lines, Armitage recommends using comics, cartoons, and even “stupid, fake and funny images.” I follow a business that caters to women (jewelry, clothes, crafts, etc.) on Instagram, and every week they post a funny “TGIF” image, usually involving a woman drinking out of a wine bottle. Entertainment garners interaction! These images always result in myriad comments – i.e., engagement with consumers.

A few more of the unconventional ideas that Armitage suggests could be simpler for companies to employ, and may not require much more in marketing dollars. For instance, background and experience information on company executives may give consumers more faith in the company’s leadership. Charts – as opposed to blocks of text – are usually easily understood for those not familiar with the technical jargon, and provide visual aesthetics. A company could also post videos (music or other) that pertain to their products or services. Send out a newsletter, host a creative promotional contest, create a podcast, or share an infographic informing the customer of what’s going on in the business. As we read in the text, the peer is often trusted over the CEO in today’s businesses. Armitage also recommends consumer reviews, surveys, polls, testimonials, vlogs, user generated content, or even photos to build interaction.

This article contains many other ways that I have not specifically mentioned to drive traffic to a company site using the buzz of content. When creating a PR campaign, many of these routes may not be your first thought – but could contribute as much, if not more, to a company’s success than simply creating a blog. If this online presence is created and cultivated, consumers will interact. In the creation of new content, your company will not only have a stronger web presence, but you will increase your social media shares, strengthen your SEO results, and build your brand reputation. Armitage ends the article with a tagline: “Entertain, educate, persuade, convert.” This is the goal of your web presence.

Review: How To End Your Internship The Right Way

Note: These article reviews are being completed for my PR Campaigns class; however, I feel as though these PR articles are too interesting not to share. I hope you learn as much from them as I did! Links to the articles are provided below.

Quilty, A. (2014, Aug. 29). “How to end your internship the right way.” PR Daily. Retrieved 1 Sept. 2014 from http://www.prdaily.com/mediarelations/Articles/17177.aspx

As a student who just completed a summer internship, the PR Daily article of “How to end your internship the right way” caught my eye. Looking at the list, I realized that I still needed to wrap some elements up.

The author, Allison Quilty, gives five tips on how to end your internship the right way. First of all, she states that the student should pursue some type of feedback. We’ve heard for years that the best way to learn is to accept constructive criticism, right? Pursuing your intern coordinator or employer for helpful feedback may give you the ability to address a weakness or capitalize on a strong suit. Understanding your work from a third party perspective could increase your value when you market yourself for a salaried career.

The second suggestion is essential for any communication student hoping to make it in the industry – stay connected! I shook many hands this summer, many of these belonging to people much more important in the business than I, who will most likely forget my name. As a matter of fact, one of the CEOs only knows me as “the intern with purple tights.” These connections are invaluable, and networking opportunities seem to fall hand in hand with internships. Don’t lose these relationships once your time ends; the article suggests collecting business cards or connecting on LinkedIn is a great way to stay in touch.

Quilty’s third recommendation is one that I faced myself – tie up loose ends. It’s the last week of your internship, your intern hours are well over their requirement, and you’re still working on something important for your boss. What do you do? I suggest, and Quilty seems to agree, that you complete your part in whatever task you’ve been given. Although it may be inconvenient for you, this will be what sets you apart in the employer’s mind. If you go the extra mile, you will be the one who takes the position. If it’s a large project, detail the process for the next person who will be taking it on. Making that transition easier for a coworker will show that you are a team player.

The fourth proposition Quilty makes is to ask for a recommendation. In reading this article, I realized that this was one thing I did not do. If you’ve worked closely with someone for an internship and feel as though you’ve contributed valuable work, take that next step and ask if he or she would be willing to put in a good word for you. Now, LinkedIn makes this easier for an employer, as he or she can write a small paragraph about how spectacular you are that anyone can see on your profile. It’s as simple as asking in a polite email. Having this “proof” from your supervisor shows your value or asset to the company, and looks good to the next boss.

Finally, Quilty’s fifth piece of advice is to say thank you. Just as we are learning and as our textbook states, PR is about building relationships. Beyond making a new networking connection on LinkedIn, show that you are grateful for the internship opportunity by thanking those who took the time to help, teach, and guide you in your venture. A thank you can be a handwritten card, or an email – but these are the things that people will remember in the future.

In retrospect, all of these tips that Quilty shares are ones we may think of as common sense; however, I know that I forgot to specifically address a few of these elements among the overwhelming amount of material that came with my internship. As I mentioned previously, I think the two most important aspects of this article are maintaining the networking contacts and building relationships. Paralleling the “rationalist management” orientation of public relations, creating and cultivating relationships in the early stages of a career, i.e. in the internship phase, will only benefit you in the future.

Review: 7 Media Relations Rules You Might Want To Break

Note: These article reviews are being completed for my PR Campaigns class; however, I feel as though these PR articles are too interesting not to share. I hope you learn as much from them as I did! Links to the articles are provided below.

Crenshaw, D. (2014, May 09). “7 media relations rules you might want to break.” PR Daily. Retrieved 27 Aug. 2014 from http://www.prdaily.com/Main/Articles/16527.aspx

The title of this article caught my eye. As PR students, we are taught these structured sets of do’s and don’t’s that we hope will bring success to our PR endeavors in the future. This article, however, addresses the gray areas of PR – and the idea that some of the rules should be bent or broken in order to create a more effective campaign or impression.

Dorothy Crenshaw’s first rule-to-be-broken is that you should forbid your client from saying, “No comment.” If a company spokesperson is uninformed about an issue and does not have the chance to understand all of the facts of the matter, it would be unproductive and perhaps even hurtful for the company to give false information to the press. In this regard, it’s appropriate to refrain on a response to the media.

Her following rule is to leave journalists alone unless you have a newsworthy issue to bring to their attention. Although this generally is the case, utilizing other news that may not be your own (newsjacking) in conjunction with your client’s perspective could provide an interesting point of view to the article. In this case, you could bother the journalist with a twist to a current story, if it is in the best interest of your client.

Crenshaw’s third rule-to-be-broken addresses the idea that a story, product or service must be special or notable to be considered valuable in the media world. This is not so much the case in our current society – few ideas are completely original. She addresses the concept that although you may not have something that stands on its own, a combination of two products or ideas could be considered a broader category that interests your public.

This summer, I worked at a PR firm where much of the focus was on tailoring the message specifically to the individual to which it pertained. Crenshaw’s fourth rule-to-break is that your story should be thrown out widely to as many people as will listen. This is something I have been specifically taught against during my time at Austin Peay. We learn that PR should be targeted and intentional. Using software like Vocus allows a PR professional to look specifically at whom he or she would like to reach, as well as the beat of reporters or subject area of editors. If the net is cast widely, chances are the story will be disregarded by many of the recipients. You also could end up with the negative effect of having an interesting story that is disregarded by the right people, because they’ve been bombarded with irrelevant messages from you in the past.

Crenshaw’s fifth rule to break is one that I believe should have more emphasis in the world of PR. This states that by training your company spokesperson, you are guaranteed to get the message across. Unfortunately, there are times that a speaker is not meant to be in front of the media. A PR pro does not want their company spokesperson to sound insincere, overly commercial, or fake in their responses. This would definitely take a toll on the effectiveness of the message, and could even hurt them or their reputation as the public could deem a hesitant speaker as dishonest.

The sixth rule-to-break is one I also had some experience with this summer; Crenshaw writes that the PR person should be making it happen in the background. I worked with a very “upfront” PR professional. She believed her presence was necessary at every city commissioner meeting, ribbon cutting, and company event. In having her presence at the forefront of company events, she built a much more successful relationship with the company’s executives, and they felt confident that she knew what she was talking about. In providing that level of support – in essence, the feeling that if something happened, she would be ready – my boss increased her own value to the company. Isn’t that what it’s about?

Finally, Crenshaw’s seventh rule-to-break is that whenever you are in doubt about the media’s perception of your event, issue or story – hold a press conference. This is unrealistic for many companies, as a press conference may not achieve the desired result. Press conferences have the ability to be successful, but often times they cost the client much more than they are worth. Instead of automatically leaning on the idea that journalists will be attracted to a press briefing, Crenshaw suggests that a company pursues a strategic media approach – where the message can be tailored and intentional.

This article was very interesting because it somewhat goes against what we are taught as students. As our class focuses on the strategic elements of PR campaigns, I’m sure that we will take more time to examine how different plans of action will be relevant in various circumstances; there is not a cookie-cutter answer to fit all companies’ problems. I believe that there is no absolute right answer as to how to approach a client’s issue, and it will take some adjustment of these PR “rules” to come up with an individualized, effective plan to bring success to your client.

Review: 5 PR Lessons From Fantasy Football

Note: These article reviews are being completed for my PR Campaigns class; however, I feel as though these PR articles are too interesting not to share. I hope you learn as much from them as I did! Links to the articles are provided below.

Manocchio, A. (2014, Aug. 26). “5 PR lessons from fantasy football.” PR Daily. Retrieved 27 Aug. 2014 from http://www.prdaily.com/mediarelations/Articles/17144.aspx

In honor of the ever popular Fantasy Football season, I chose my article review to be based on Alexa Manocchio’s “5 PR Lessons From Fantasy Football.”

This article wittily compares PR to the lessons learned from fantasy football using sporty terms and team analogies. First of all, she states that it is important for a PR person to “know his/her stats.” Just like in football, there are people that are incredibly skilled in certain areas of their work and others who may be better doing another task. In understanding the people with whom you work, you can be effective in your message by doing your research. This can apply to both people and publications.

Targeting your message to a specific beat reporter will most likely be much more successful than giving a generalized release to a wide variety of people. Along the same lines, be intentional in your publication choice. What will be the most beneficial to your client? What has worked in the past? In understanding the “stats” of those with whom you’re dealing, your PR strategies will be much more effective.

Manocchio’s second fantasy football lesson is that you could “lose on any given Sunday.” This addresses the idea that in PR, you can have an upset/incident regardless of how prepared you are. Things will occasionally happen. If something unforeseen occurs, your energy needs to be refocused into learning from the mistake and addressing the issue in the future.

The third lesson the author gives is one that is especially relevant to our communication strategies today – “stay up to the minute.” There are constantly things happening in the world of communications – be it mergers, events, crises, or huge stories. If you do not stay engaged, or on top of what is going on in the world around you, you (and your client) may miss out on the chance to be included. Staying current with what is happening in the industry will not only benefit your clients and their best interests, but also will allow you to be more effective in your public relations – making you a much more valuable asset.

The fourth fantasy football lesson that we’re given is based on the importance of interactivity. People do not want to feel as though they are bystanders to the action. A great (and unintentional) example of the importance of interactivity can be seen with the recent spike in donations to ALSA via the ice bucket challenge. People want to have the chance to take part in something where they feel as though they are needed, they are valued, and they make a difference. PR campaigns that engage the public are generally much more successful than those with a side-lined audience. With the introduction of interactivity, the PR effort is much more targeted and intentional, allowing the company to better engage customers.

Finally, Manocchio’s fifth fantasy football lesson is that “collaboration leads to wins.” This plays somewhat into the first lesson, as understanding the strengths and weaknesses of those with whom you work will make your end result much more successful. Collaboration brings fresh ideas, thorough plans, and new perspectives that may be otherwise overlooked. This also could be collaboration with your client; understanding the company’s goals and desires for the campaign will give insight on how to address it strategically. When each of these individual elements are given attention, the communication is directed toward the end goal.

I thought that this article made a lot of great points. It is important to address that much of PR is based in thoughtful, well-researched, calculated and strategic decisions rather than rash choices. Staying current is especially crucial, as there are constant decisions and opportunities that affect the choices you would need to make for a client. In conjunction with staying in-the-know comes the concept of interactivity. A good PR person would see the effects/success of an interactive PR campaign (because they did their up-to-the-minute research!) as compared to one that did not engage the audience; he or she could choose a course of action from this point. In this way, all of these elements are interwoven when considering how to build a successful PR campaign.